Topic Overview

Alcohol is part of many traditions and is often served at parties and other functions. And although many drugs are illegal or legal only with a prescription, people may offer them to you.

If you’re in a situation where someone is offering you alcohol or drugs, try this:

• Look the person in the eye.
• In a firm voice, tell the person you don’t want to drink or use drugs. Say something like:
  • “No, I’m sorry, but I don’t use….”
  • “No, I’m really trying to stay clean.”
  • “No, I’m trying to cut back.”
• Give a reason why you don’t want to drink or use drugs. Say something like:
  • “It’s bad for my health.”
  • “I could lose my housing.”
  • “I have trouble when I use….”
• Ask the person not to ask you to drink or use drugs again. Say something like:
  • “Hey, I said I’m trying to stay clean, so don’t ask me again.”
  • “I told you I don’t use anymore, so stop asking.”
  • “I’m trying really hard to stay clean, so please don’t ask me to use anymore.”
• If you notice that someone does have drugs, leave the area.